Actors who are believeable as men who love women

OK, I will bring the Donald Sutherland stuff into this thread tomorrow.

The real deal is that the only hot actors to me are those who can do love/sex scenes as though they can believably be in love and sexual at the same time

I am sure there are more (please post!) but the only ones I can recall off the top of my head are Al Pacino (fabulously in Sea of Love, but in lesser movies, too), Dennis Quaid in The Big Easy (have noticed it so much in anything else), and Donald Sutherland (in Klute and Don't Look Now).

I want more examples. I really can't remember any others, though.

If you watch John Cusack in "Say Anything" when he's about to make love with Ione Skye, it's just beautiful. He's shaking and you can tell he's in love with her and also overcome with desire. Truly and awesome moment.

I'm sure there's more. Give me some time.

I like my guys both in love and confident (and a bit aggressive) but I do think Cusack does a lovely job in that.